No need for me to calm down. Anyone recently losing a loved one,
especially with that person suffering for an extended period (with dementia
and arthritis) in a nursing home would take offense to your general remarks
about throwing money away (to a nursing home) and not caring about their
loved ones quality of life.

Sorry but that is how I took it. I said what I had to say.

Peace.






"Starbucker" wrote in message
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JimH,
Take a long deep breath, and calm down.

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