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Vito wrote:
"Jonathan Ganz" wrote
You haven't been around very much I guess.
Only about 70 years, living or visiting all parts of the USA and some of
Canada - except of course FNYC. Only went there once - it was too filthy to
return.
Age is finally getting to you?
It's not a phobia. No one is running from the room. It's about not
tolerating abusive, racist language.
Tolerating? What are you going to do about it, whine the dude to death?
Stand up and say it isn't right. Not back down from my belief that it
isn't right.
Look up the word phobia and get back to us.
Phobia: An irrational fear or anxiety .... like a phobia about certain sounds or
words.
So, where do you see fear or anxiety in any of my response. Just
because you use racist expressions, doesn't mean I have to be afraid
of them.
No, there is nothing wrong with a *little* sensitivity but pavlovian
oversensitivity, not callousness, is the demon. Nor is there anything wrong
So far, I haven't seen your ability to do this.
That's because you are phobic.
Oh, well, if you day so! NOT
There's a difference between giving language color and being offensive
for no reason. The latter is what we're talking about.
On the contrary. The whole discussion began over the phrase "Jew down" which, if
it carries any insult the insult exists only in the minds of those who dislike
Jews or are ashamed of being Jewish.
No, expressions like this cause harm, sometimes physical harm to
people if the people who use them are not called on their behavior. If
you've lived 70 years, you would get that unless you lived in a pickle
jar the whole time.
But, that's what you do. Stop trying to play psychologist. You're not
very good at it.
Good enough to know that you are phobic because you are prejudiced but in
denial.
Sure, whatever.
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