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Hi All,
I was wondering how many people here are retired? Any words of wisdom about preparing for retirement from the older retired crowd? I want to retire so I can go boating more often. -- Bill Kiene Kiene's Fly Shop Sacramento, CA, USA www.kiene.com |
Retirement
"Bill Kiene" wrote in message ... Hi All, I was wondering how many people here are retired? Any words of wisdom about preparing for retirement from the older retired crowd? I want to retire so I can go boating more often. -- Bill Kiene Kiene's Fly Shop Sacramento, CA, USA www.kiene.com It has taken me about three years to accept the fact that I am retired. My situation is a little unusual as I was given the opportunity to "retire" at a early age (51). At first it was difficult to accept that I no longer had to go to work every day and had a great deal of free time. I had a sense of guilt for a while, not making meaningful accomplishments every day, and justified it by considering myself important as a "consultant" to my prior business. Now, at the ripe old age of 54, I have finally started to accept being retired and am beginning to enjoy some of the more simple pleasures of life. I don't have big long term plans, I take life day by day, and enjoy doing whatever turns me on at the moment. I am satisfied with whatever accomplishments I made during my years in a technical based business, but now recognize that a younger generation has taken it over with new and frankly better ideas. Mrs. E and I raised three kids, the youngest of whom became engaged during the holidays. The two older kids are married and busy raising their young families. (4 grandkids, so far). Our kids are, by far, our greatest accomplishment. So -- words of wisdom? Other than preparing yourself financially, you have to prepare yourself mentally to learn to relax and realize there is more to life than business, working and (for the benefit of the NG) getting all wound up about politics. It sounds easy, but it is not. Good luck and enjoy it! Eisboch |
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Since I've been retired for five years now, I feel I can partially answer
your question... The best "time to retire" phrase that I've heard is ""When you HAVE enough, and have HAD enough" it is time to retire. This was spoken only a few weeks ago by a neighbor who is retiring TODAY. After a successful 35 years with a major oil company...he has, apparently, "had enough and has enough". Don't retire unless your job is done. By done, I mean that you have accomplished all of whatever it is that made you go to work everyday all those years. Don't retire just because "it is the thing to do". Don't retire because you "think you have enough"...because you will spend the next five years worrying whether or not you actually DO have enough. I said I'd write a book on the topic after I retired....but I'm too busy enjoying retirement to do that! I spent the last 20 + years of my working career as an investment broker who worked almost exclusively with retired and retiring clients in the Houston area. I play golf with a bunch of them weekly now. A few things that I cautioned them about were... 1. In the first two years after retirement, you will spend MORE than you expected to. 2. After the first few years, your spending may well slow down to the dollar amount than you actually hoped/expected to spend. 3. You won't be bored unless you work at being bored. 99% of my clients would tell me, one year after retirement, that "They didn't know how they ever had time to go to work, they are so busy". There are a zillion things out there to do, from fishing; golfing; computers; church work; meals-on-wheels; travel; bowling; grandkids; home repairs ( ugghhh); working on your boat ( yea! )...and on and on and on. I guess I COULD write the book on it, I have so many stories to tell, about successful and unsuccessful retirees. RichG "Bill Kiene" wrote in message ... Hi All, I was wondering how many people here are retired? Any words of wisdom about preparing for retirement from the older retired crowd? I want to retire so I can go boating more often. -- Bill Kiene Kiene's Fly Shop Sacramento, CA, USA www.kiene.com |
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On Wed, 31 Dec 2003 07:44:56 GMT, "Bill Kiene"
wrote: Hi All, I was wondering how many people here are retired? Any words of wisdom about preparing for retirement from the older retired crowd? I want to retire so I can go boating more often. Yes. Find something to do. I have picked substitute teaching as a means of staying as busy as I want to be. During my first six months of doing nothing, I almost went totally bananas. You can only fish and mow the grass so often. Also, most of the people in this group sleep at some time of day, so you can't depend on a good argument carrying you through 48 hours at a time. John H On the 'Poco Loco' out of Deale, MD on the beautiful Chesapeake Bay! |
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I looked at my family death history and made a wild speculation based on the
family attributes how long statistically I might expect to live. When I amassed the "toys" that I wanted to enjoy during retirement, when I turned 62, and when I had all the fun at TWA I could stand after 40 years, I retired. I made a few initial mistakes by accepting 40-50 hr per week jobs here and there and amassed a few additional "toys" at the cost of enjoying my retirement. I did this for the first three years. On year 4 I spent a lot of time at our home at Lake of the Ozarks, worked at a local business when I needed "mad money" or when they got in a pinch for help and find this works much better. I've out lived most family members by 10-15 years, am having a ball doing what I enjoy, custom cabinet making for customers, restoring classic wood boats for customers, restoring antique outboards, home maintenance and all of it is on a "when I get around to it schedule"! I also maintain the hardware and software at the local cabinet shop for their computer controlled wood working equipment. I have been known to take a mid-day nap now and then! God has been good to me in spire of myself! I could not have planned it this good! Don Dando "RG" wrote in message ... Since I've been retired for five years now, I feel I can partially answer your question... The best "time to retire" phrase that I've heard is ""When you HAVE enough, and have HAD enough" it is time to retire. This was spoken only a few weeks ago by a neighbor who is retiring TODAY. After a successful 35 years with a major oil company...he has, apparently, "had enough and has enough". Don't retire unless your job is done. By done, I mean that you have accomplished all of whatever it is that made you go to work everyday all those years. Don't retire just because "it is the thing to do". Don't retire because you "think you have enough"...because you will spend the next five years worrying whether or not you actually DO have enough. I said I'd write a book on the topic after I retired....but I'm too busy enjoying retirement to do that! I spent the last 20 + years of my working career as an investment broker who worked almost exclusively with retired and retiring clients in the Houston area. I play golf with a bunch of them weekly now. A few things that I cautioned them about were... 1. In the first two years after retirement, you will spend MORE than you expected to. 2. After the first few years, your spending may well slow down to the dollar amount than you actually hoped/expected to spend. 3. You won't be bored unless you work at being bored. 99% of my clients would tell me, one year after retirement, that "They didn't know how they ever had time to go to work, they are so busy". There are a zillion things out there to do, from fishing; golfing; computers; church work; meals-on-wheels; travel; bowling; grandkids; home repairs ( ugghhh); working on your boat ( yea! )...and on and on and on. I guess I COULD write the book on it, I have so many stories to tell, about successful and unsuccessful retirees. RichG "Bill Kiene" wrote in message ... Hi All, I was wondering how many people here are retired? Any words of wisdom about preparing for retirement from the older retired crowd? I want to retire so I can go boating more often. -- Bill Kiene Kiene's Fly Shop Sacramento, CA, USA www.kiene.com |
Retirement
I failed to mention that I bought several industrial upholstery sewing
machines and I'm learning to do the seats in the boats I restore. Having time to do those things you always want to "get around to" is great! Don Dando "Don Dando" wrote in message gy.com... I looked at my family death history and made a wild speculation based on the family attributes how long statistically I might expect to live. When I amassed the "toys" that I wanted to enjoy during retirement, when I turned 62, and when I had all the fun at TWA I could stand after 40 years, I retired. I made a few initial mistakes by accepting 40-50 hr per week jobs here and there and amassed a few additional "toys" at the cost of enjoying my retirement. I did this for the first three years. On year 4 I spent a lot of time at our home at Lake of the Ozarks, worked at a local business when I needed "mad money" or when they got in a pinch for help and find this works much better. I've out lived most family members by 10-15 years, am having a ball doing what I enjoy, custom cabinet making for customers, restoring classic wood boats for customers, restoring antique outboards, home maintenance and all of it is on a "when I get around to it schedule"! I also maintain the hardware and software at the local cabinet shop for their computer controlled wood working equipment. I have been known to take a mid-day nap now and then! God has been good to me in spire of myself! I could not have planned it this good! Don Dando "RG" wrote in message ... Since I've been retired for five years now, I feel I can partially answer your question... The best "time to retire" phrase that I've heard is ""When you HAVE enough, and have HAD enough" it is time to retire. This was spoken only a few weeks ago by a neighbor who is retiring TODAY. After a successful 35 years with a major oil company...he has, apparently, "had enough and has enough". Don't retire unless your job is done. By done, I mean that you have accomplished all of whatever it is that made you go to work everyday all those years. Don't retire just because "it is the thing to do". Don't retire because you "think you have enough"...because you will spend the next five years worrying whether or not you actually DO have enough. I said I'd write a book on the topic after I retired....but I'm too busy enjoying retirement to do that! I spent the last 20 + years of my working career as an investment broker who worked almost exclusively with retired and retiring clients in the Houston area. I play golf with a bunch of them weekly now. A few things that I cautioned them about were... 1. In the first two years after retirement, you will spend MORE than you expected to. 2. After the first few years, your spending may well slow down to the dollar amount than you actually hoped/expected to spend. 3. You won't be bored unless you work at being bored. 99% of my clients would tell me, one year after retirement, that "They didn't know how they ever had time to go to work, they are so busy". There are a zillion things out there to do, from fishing; golfing; computers; church work; meals-on-wheels; travel; bowling; grandkids; home repairs ( ugghhh); working on your boat ( yea! )...and on and on and on. I guess I COULD write the book on it, I have so many stories to tell, about successful and unsuccessful retirees. RichG "Bill Kiene" wrote in message ... Hi All, I was wondering how many people here are retired? Any words of wisdom about preparing for retirement from the older retired crowd? I want to retire so I can go boating more often. -- Bill Kiene Kiene's Fly Shop Sacramento, CA, USA www.kiene.com |
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Retired?
Um, yeah, I guess so.... If you call being retired from the military, actually "retiring". But with my teeny retirement pension from the Coast Guard, I couldn't live off that and support my family. As it is now, it pays my mortgage with a little change leftover. So, I stepped into the civilian world and got a job, a whole new career, and at 42 years old, I still have a long way to go before I retire! Butch Ammon |
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"Don Dando" wrote in message igy.com...
I failed to mention that I bought several industrial upholstery sewing machines and I'm learning to do the seats in the boats I restore. Having time to do those things you always want to "get around to" is great! Don Dando And there in lies my problem. I am under 50, have a few simple things but am "retired" into doing my hobby, as is my wife. Between the two of us we pay the bills. My dad was a master finish carpenter when he came out of WW2. A few years later he decided to take a "safe" union job at a warehouse. He always thought that he would retire after raising his family and continue his love, carpentry. Well by the time he retired he was a good two decades into Parkinsons disease, needless to say I now have his shop and tools as he can not use them. Many years ago we decided that life is short, you gotta do what you love, there can be no compromise. It aint easy, but it's all good... Scotty "Don Dando" wrote in message gy.com... I looked at my family death history and made a wild speculation based on the family attributes how long statistically I might expect to live. When I amassed the "toys" that I wanted to enjoy during retirement, when I turned 62, and when I had all the fun at TWA I could stand after 40 years, I retired. I made a few initial mistakes by accepting 40-50 hr per week jobs here and there and amassed a few additional "toys" at the cost of enjoying my retirement. I did this for the first three years. On year 4 I spent a lot of time at our home at Lake of the Ozarks, worked at a local business when I needed "mad money" or when they got in a pinch for help and find this works much better. I've out lived most family members by 10-15 years, am having a ball doing what I enjoy, custom cabinet making for customers, restoring classic wood boats for customers, restoring antique outboards, home maintenance and all of it is on a "when I get around to it schedule"! I also maintain the hardware and software at the local cabinet shop for their computer controlled wood working equipment. I have been known to take a mid-day nap now and then! God has been good to me in spire of myself! I could not have planned it this good! Don Dando "RG" wrote in message ... Since I've been retired for five years now, I feel I can partially answer your question... The best "time to retire" phrase that I've heard is ""When you HAVE enough, and have HAD enough" it is time to retire. This was spoken only a few weeks ago by a neighbor who is retiring TODAY. After a successful 35 years with a major oil company...he has, apparently, "had enough and has enough". Don't retire unless your job is done. By done, I mean that you have accomplished all of whatever it is that made you go to work everyday all those years. Don't retire just because "it is the thing to do". Don't retire because you "think you have enough"...because you will spend the next five years worrying whether or not you actually DO have enough. I said I'd write a book on the topic after I retired....but I'm too busy enjoying retirement to do that! I spent the last 20 + years of my working career as an investment broker who worked almost exclusively with retired and retiring clients in the Houston area. I play golf with a bunch of them weekly now. A few things that I cautioned them about were... 1. In the first two years after retirement, you will spend MORE than you expected to. 2. After the first few years, your spending may well slow down to the dollar amount than you actually hoped/expected to spend. 3. You won't be bored unless you work at being bored. 99% of my clients would tell me, one year after retirement, that "They didn't know how they ever had time to go to work, they are so busy". There are a zillion things out there to do, from fishing; golfing; computers; church work; meals-on-wheels; travel; bowling; grandkids; home repairs ( ugghhh); working on your boat ( yea! )...and on and on and on. I guess I COULD write the book on it, I have so many stories to tell, about successful and unsuccessful retirees. RichG "Bill Kiene" wrote in message ... Hi All, I was wondering how many people here are retired? Any words of wisdom about preparing for retirement from the older retired crowd? I want to retire so I can go boating more often. -- Bill Kiene Kiene's Fly Shop Sacramento, CA, USA www.kiene.com |
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"Bill Kiene" wrote in message m...
Hi All, I was wondering how many people here are retired? Any words of wisdom about preparing for retirement from the older retired crowd? I want to retire so I can go boating more often. Oh, one more thing. During retirement, cars are handy so keep your keys in your pocket.. |
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I am semi-retired. After the last layoff, tried to retire (I am 60) but got
bored. So not wanting to commute to the Silicon Valley anymore, I got my contractors license and do small jobs that bring in some money, and keep me alert. My mother just turned 89 and she still works 1 day a week as an RN at a convalescent home. Does not need the money, but keeps her interested in the world, and helping out. The fact I am self employed allows me to take trips when I want to. You can only boat and fish so much locally. So buying a new diesel pickumup and a camper so I can tow the boat to BC and fish Lloyds region and other distant venues. Maybe you can do some fly tying classes for the local adult school or a fly shop. Seminars, sort of like Jay Fair. Also get involved in some charitable work. Have to keep some outside interests oor you get old quick. Bill "John H" wrote in message ... On Wed, 31 Dec 2003 07:44:56 GMT, "Bill Kiene" wrote: Hi All, I was wondering how many people here are retired? Any words of wisdom about preparing for retirement from the older retired crowd? I want to retire so I can go boating more often. Yes. Find something to do. I have picked substitute teaching as a means of staying as busy as I want to be. During my first six months of doing nothing, I almost went totally bananas. You can only fish and mow the grass so often. Also, most of the people in this group sleep at some time of day, so you can't depend on a good argument carrying you through 48 hours at a time. John H On the 'Poco Loco' out of Deale, MD on the beautiful Chesapeake Bay! |
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