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Michael says:
============= I've learned a lot over the years from lots of people. I'm not going to pretend that I don't owe them a great deal. That doesn't mean that I desperately need a professional instructor - even a single word from an experienced person can turn on a light. ============= I concur 100%. Why do I have this funny feeling (trying not to speak for KMAN here) KMAN wouldn't disagree either. |
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On 15-Oct-2005, "BCITORGB" wrote: Why do I have this funny feeling (trying not to speak for KMAN here) KMAN wouldn't disagree either. If he did, he'd find a way to insult me in the process. He's been doing that in all the years since we first crossed paths on Usenet. Mike |
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in article , BCITORGB
at wrote on 10/15/05 2:59 PM: I find myself torn between Mike's approaches to many topics and those of KMAN. Mike speaks to the geeky nerd in me while KMAN addresses my tendencies to anarchy and resistance to all things organized. While they do tend to go on and on, I find a little something of value on both their contributions. My rational side agrees with Mike on this issue. However, hell will be frozen over before I'll ever find myself enrolled in a kayaking course (you will, however, see me lurking on the fringes of such classes picking up whatever bons mots I can); could be that I'm just plain cheap. So, as far as I'm concerned, Mike and KMAN; carry on but perhaps figure out when you're starting to flog dead horses GRIN... and I will continue to enjoy my rudder even though I could paddle straight if I wanted to. Really! I could! And without lessons! Cheers Cheers. I think. |
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in article , Michael Daly at
wrote on 10/15/05 3:01 PM: On 14-Oct-2005, "KMAN" wrote: That's the outcome of the professionalization of recreation. And you claim that you don't denigrate professionals. You're so full of ****, Keenan. Mike That's KMAN. And you are full of rage, it seems. Or certainly the inability to have a discussion without resorting to personal attacks. How am I denigrating professionals? I'm a professional myself. Although I am pretty good at auto mechanics, I take my car to a professional. And I speak highly of their work. I have a lawyer and an accountant. I speak highly of them and their work too. But I don't think the professionalization of recreation is a good thing. It's supposed to be recreation, not work that happens outside! I feel sorry for many children today who find themselves professionally scheduled for every waking hour. They are in leagues and lessons, rushed from one to the other, and nobody ever just goes out and plays anymore. It's not healthy. And some of the attitudes express here are consistent with that same problem - the thinking that learning without a professional instructor is somehow inferior. I find it sad. |
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in article , Michael Daly at
wrote on 10/15/05 3:04 PM: On 14-Oct-2005, "KMAN" wrote: I've been trying to explain that people can and do become skillful without professional instruction. "Can" isn't the same thing as "will". I know. I didn't say all people. I can formally amend the above to say "I've been trying to explain that some people can and do become skillful without professional instruction" if that will help you. That's the part you refuse to accept and what Steve is trying to explain. I agreed with that a long time ago, you just don't listen. As I have said repeatedly - _some_ people can learn without instruction; _most_ people cannot. Mike That sounds exactly like the statement I agreed to some time ago. I would consider people incapable of learning without professional instruction to be victims. It's a basic instinct for human beings to learn through experience and observation. It's evidence that the culture of professinalization has gone to far when we can now produce human beings incapable of learning without professional instruction. |
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in article , BCITORGB
at wrote on 10/15/05 4:49 PM: Michael: ============== That's the outcome of the professionalization of recreation. And you claim that you don't denigrate professionals. You're so full of ****, Keenan. =============== I don't denigrate professionals, but, I too, wonder at the "professionalization of recreation". Why can't kids play soccer (hockey, basketball, etc) anymore, without going to camps lead by ex-pro athletes? LOL. I just wrote something similar. Apparently the lowly parent subbing players as required in games isn't good enough for some. I coach and have coached a number of children in sports. It has come to the point where I have to have a meeting with all the parents and explain to them that all the children are going to get equal playing time, and that if this is a problem for any parent, they should move their child to another team now, rather than put them in the middle of a situation where coach and parent cannot agree. And, believe it or not, about 10% of parents actually pull their kids of the team. Why must people assume they have to take lessons to ski? I skiied for several years, having a great deal of fun, putting the weight on the wrong foot when turning (I assumed it was like skating); lessons would have sped up the learning of that fact, but I'm not sure I would have had more fun. I learned how to downhill ski when my buddies took me up to the top of the hill and pushed me. I was a little upset at the time, but I always had a blast, right from that first moment. In some sports (like tennis) I decided I really wanted to become technically proficient, so I worked at my game. But in skiing, I stuck with my original technique. Good times. Michael, I'm not opposed to lessons, but I think our society occasionally gets carried away with the formalization of recreation (just look at all the people signing up for cooking lessons; fer crissakes, it's not rocket science!!!! -- read a friggin' cookbook!!!). My $0.02 -- and no denigration of professionals Agree, agree. I am ashamed to say I now have several acquaintances who feel they need "personal trainers" because they can't stop eating like pigs or get off their asses to go for walk. They honestly believe it is not possible for them to lose weight without a professional to help them. The professionals who do this work are not to blame. It's the culture that has produced such a belief that is to blame. |
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in article , Michael Daly at
wrote on 10/15/05 6:22 PM: On 15-Oct-2005, "BCITORGB" wrote: Why can't kids play soccer (hockey, basketball, etc) anymore, without going to camps lead by ex-pro athletes? Apparently the lowly parent subbing players as required in games isn't good enough for some. There is a problem with organized sports and that problem is parents. They want to live the successful athlete's life vicariously through their kids. However, most organized sports consists of well-meaning dads and moms helping their kids play for fun. Do you go and watch kids in organized sports? Those well-meaning moms and dads - a lot of them - are screaming for their kid to do things that aren't very nice. Those moms and dads may not be as obvious as the loud-mouthed nutcase parents, but they are by far in the majority. Friends and relatives of mine are in that category. My brother-in-law has done a lot of good with kids in curling. If it isn't fun, he makes sure the kids make the right decision about whether to continue. See my other post about coaching. Although only 10% of the parents actually walk out, I've learned about 50% of those who remain ain't happy. Michael, I'm not opposed to lessons, but I think our society occasionally gets carried away with the formalization of recreation (just look at all the people signing up for cooking lessons; fer crissakes, it's not rocket science!!!! -- read a friggin' cookbook!!!). That's fine - you can take lessons if you want. Otherwise you can learn on your own. But that's not the same thing as saying that professional instructors are somehow bad. Who has said this? |
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in article , BCITORGB
at wrote on 10/15/05 8:27 PM: Michael says: ============= I've learned a lot over the years from lots of people. I'm not going to pretend that I don't owe them a great deal. That doesn't mean that I desperately need a professional instructor - even a single word from an experienced person can turn on a light. ============= I concur 100%. Why do I have this funny feeling (trying not to speak for KMAN here) KMAN wouldn't disagree either. I wouldn't :-) I've been trying to make the simple point that SOME people are capable of learning on their own. I further understand and agree that with some people and/or with certain skills being self-taught could mean a longer learning curve than would be epxerienced with professional instruction. But I firmly believe ALL people SHOULD be capable of learning without professional instruction. The fact that some are not (or think they are not) is evidence for me of a problem in our culture - that the learning instinct has been beaten out of some of the human beings in our society. My own approach to supporting the learning of others is to view my role as a facilitator. I am not "teaching" them. Teaching from that perspective is something you "do to" someone. I prefer to understand it is a process we are sharing together. I am going to learn things from them as well (and that's for me the most rewarding thing about supporting people to learn). I facilitate their learning - making sure they are in charge, rather than adopting a superior instructor vs inferior learner approach. Professional or otherwise, that's the perspective I look for in choosing professionals that help me in my own life. |
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